Prologue: PART 2
I fired my Biz Coach & hired a Pleasure Dom Daddy.
Why Erotic Energy is the Missing Link in Your Spirit-Led Biz
My rapturous beloved,
You don’t just need a creative midwife to help you birth your soul’s calling into this world.
YOU NEED A PLEASURE DOM DADDY to hold down the freakin fort.
To tell you you’re a glowing goddess even when you’re covered in sweat and your own shit.
To hold you with the most tender of devotion and say, “You got this baby girl,” when you wanna give up. “Trust me, trust yourself, trust the creation we’ve made together.”
TELL ME I’M LYING!
I know I’m not the only one who needs this kinda holding to birth my life’s work into the world.
I want my soul's calling to feel like a Pleasure Dom Daddy.
The one who reads my body like a treasure map.
Who knows exactly when to make tender love — and when to rail me against the wall in a sundress.
Who moans when he drinks from the sweetest nectar dripping between my thighs like it’s the food of the gods.
Who offers his seed to me like a holy sacrament. Who fills me with the overflow of his warmth and teaches me how to receive MORE.
Who stares directly into my fragile and feral eyes as I’m about to crack open and says, “I’ve got you. All of you.”
Am I turning you on?
Good. That’s the whole point.
Your business, aka your soul’s calling,
SHOULD turn you on!
Otherwise, why have a business at all?
Look, here’s the thing.
Most of us have been conditioned to live our lives in compartments.
“Turn on is for the bedroom.”
“Work is supposed to be a grind; that’s why it’s called work.”
Being turned on about your job?
Getting wet/hard when you feel a creative download pulse through you?
Imagining God pleasure Domming you into sacred submission to BLOOM and THRIVE as the divine creatrix you came here to be?
SHAMEFUL! NAUGHTY! SIN!
WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?
You work to get a paycheck.
And then you retire.
And then you die.
Maybe you have some money to pass down to your grandkids if you’re lucky.
And that’s it.
BABES. We can do SO MUCH BETTER than this.
And before we go any further, don’t get this twisted.
Your life’s work doesn’t need to be sexual in nature to harness your erotic aliveness in business.
Sexual energy and Erotic energy
are NOT the same thing.
Sexual energy is life force in its most primal, reproductive form. It’s the energy of arousal, desire, orgasm, and procreation.
Erotic energy? Much MUCH vaster.
The erotic is the raw, wild pulse of aliveness that animates all things. It’s the energy of art, creation, beauty, longing, rebellion, and devotion.
It’s in a sunset that brings you to tears, the way a poem wraps around your ribcage, the shiver of truth in your spine when you speak something holy.
Audre Lorde described the erotic as “a source of power and information in our lives.”
It’s our felt sense of connection to the sacred within the sensual — the YESSSS that lives in the body.
Now, why do we need
to be turned on
for our soul’s calling?
Because turn-on
is a state of receptivity.
It’s when your body
says YES to life.
When your heart flutters, your skin hums, your womb contracts with a vision too potent to ignore — that’s your soul saying, “go this way, beloved.”
Turn-on isn’t just about pleasure — it’s about soul alignment.
When you’re erotically alive, you’re:
Magnetic — people feel your frequency, your aliveness becomes medicine
Creative — you become a channel for ideas, stories, and transmissions that seduce the soul
Courageous — because the erotic makes you feel more authentically YOU than anything else ever could
Tuned in — to the subtle whispers of your calling, the sacred ache of your purpose
A turned-on body is an oracle.
A turned-on voice is a revolution.
A turned-on life is a prayer answered.
You don’t have to be leaking sexual energy everywhere to be turned on.
You just have to be deeply, deliciously in the full expression of your aliveness.
Master Your Erotic Expression and
You will become MAGNETISM embodied.
Your frequency will speak before you ever do.
You will become a living, breathing landing page for your brand.
You will become a MAGNET for your right-fit clients and repel everyone who isn’t meant for you.
So, how exactly do we do this?
How do we liberate our erotic aliveness from the shackles of shame and all the cages we’ve built around how we should or shouldn’t express ourselves in our life’s work?
Come back tomorrow for Part 3, and I’ll tell you exactly how….
I put EROS in the driver's seat of my business.
What happened to my client-attraction in business as a result.
& SPOILER ALERT!
Why I’m burning my professional identity down and no longer calling myself a trauma-informed breathwork/somatic healer.
Buckle up, babes.
I’m peeling back the curtain, and you get a front row seat to the big reveal.